Introduction
When we think of autism, the image that often comes to mind is that of a child. Colorful puzzle pieces, early intervention programs, and school accommodations dominate the conversation. But what happens when these children grow up? What about those diagnosed later in life or those who have lived decades without a formal diagnosis? The uncomfortable truth is that autism awareness has largely failed to include adults and seniors, creating a significant gap in understanding, support, and resources.
Autism spectrum disorder (ASD) is a lifelong neurodevelopmental condition. It doesn’t disappear when someone turns 18, yet our societal focus, research funding, and support systems overwhelmingly center on children. This blog post explores why expanding autism awareness to include adults and seniors is not just important but essential for building a truly inclusive society.
The Current State of Autism Awareness
Autism awareness has made tremendous strides in recent decades. According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), autism prevalence has risen to 1 in 36 children as of 2023, a significant increase from the 1 in 150 reported in 2000. This rise reflects improved diagnostic practices and greater awareness among parents, educators, and healthcare providers.
However, this focus has been disproportionately child-centered. A 2021 analysis of autism research funding revealed that less than 2% of research dollars went to studies specifically focused on adults with autism, despite adults representing the majority of the autism population. The message seems clear: autism is primarily considered a childhood condition.
This perspective is not only inaccurate but harmful. Autism is a lifelong condition that evolves and presents new challenges throughout adulthood and into senior years. By neglecting adults and seniors in our awareness efforts, we leave millions without the understanding and support they deserve.
The Invisible Generation: Adults with Autism
Late Diagnosis Realities
Many adults receive autism diagnoses later in life, particularly those who grew up before autism awareness became mainstream. A 2019 study published in the Journal of Autism and Developmental Disorders found that the average age of diagnosis for adults without intellectual disability was 31.6 years, with some receiving diagnoses in their 60s or 70s.
For these individuals, a diagnosis often brings a mixture of relief and grief:
- Relief at finally understanding why they’ve always felt different
- Grief for the support and accommodations they could have benefited from earlier
- Challenges in accessing services primarily designed for children
- The emotional labor of reframing their life experiences through this new lens
Sarah, a 56-year-old woman diagnosed with autism at 52, describes her experience: “It was like finding the missing instruction manual to my life. Suddenly, all these experiences that never made sense had context. But there was also this profound sadness for all the years I spent believing I was just broken somehow.”
Employment Challenges
The employment statistics for adults with autism are sobering:
- Only 14.3% of adults with autism held full-time employment according to a 2021 report by Drexel University’s Autism Institute
- 42% of autistic adults who are employed work in jobs for which they are overqualified
- Nearly 51% reported workplace discrimination related to their autism
These challenges aren’t due to lack of ability or desire to work. Rather, they stem from workplace environments and hiring practices that fail to accommodate neurodivergent thinking and communication styles.
Social Isolation
Social isolation is a significant issue for adults with autism. A 2020 study in the Journal of Autism and Developmental Disorders found that adults with autism experience loneliness at a rate four times higher than the general population.
This isolation often stems from:
- Difficulty with social communication
- Exhaustion from masking (hiding autistic traits)
- Lack of autism-friendly social spaces
- Reduced support networks compared to children with autism
As one self-advocate explains, “The world gets a lot smaller after you age out of school. People think we don’t want friends or relationships, but most of us do—we just need different pathways to build them.”
Seniors with Autism: The Most Overlooked Group
If adults with autism are overlooked, seniors with autism are nearly invisible in awareness campaigns and research. Yet this population faces unique challenges that demand attention.
The First Generation
Today’s seniors with autism are, in many ways, the first substantial generation to be recognized. Many lived most of their lives without a diagnosis, adapting and compensating as best they could in a world that didn’t understand them.
Dr. Joseph Piven, a researcher at the University of North Carolina, notes: “We know very little about autism across the lifespan, particularly in old age. The individuals who are now in their 60s, 70s, and 80s with autism grew up in an era before modern diagnostic criteria even existed.”
Age-Related Complications
Autism in seniors presents unique challenges:
- Cognitive changes of aging may compound executive functioning difficulties
- Sensory sensitivities may be exacerbated by age-related conditions
- Transitions to assisted living facilities can be particularly traumatic due to changes in routine and sensory environment
- Healthcare providers rarely screen for or recognize autism in older patients
A 2022 study in the Journal of Autism and Developmental Disorders found that autistic seniors were three times more likely to report negative healthcare experiences than their neurotypical peers, largely due to providers’ lack of understanding about autism in older adults.
The Intersection with Dementia
The intersection of autism and dementia presents particular challenges that remain largely unstudied. Preliminary research suggests:
- Difficulty distinguishing between autism traits and dementia symptoms
- Potential for earlier onset of certain types of cognitive decline
- Challenges in appropriate care planning that addresses both conditions
As one caregiver shared, “When my autistic father developed Alzheimer’s, it was like navigating uncharted territory. His doctors didn’t understand his baseline, and the memory care facility wasn’t equipped to handle his sensory needs.”
The Cost of Exclusion
The exclusion of adults and seniors from autism awareness efforts carries significant costs—both to individuals and society as a whole.
Individual Impact
For individual adults and seniors with autism, the costs include:
- Delayed or missed diagnoses
- Inappropriate treatment approaches
- Reduced quality of life
- Financial instability due to employment challenges
- Mental health complications from years of misunderstanding
Societal Impact
Society also loses when we fail to include adults and seniors in autism awareness:
- Untapped talents and perspectives in the workforce
- Increased healthcare costs from preventable mental health crises
- Lost productivity from capable adults unable to find suitable employment
- Strain on families providing support without adequate resources
- Missed opportunities for intergenerational knowledge transfer
A 2020 economic analysis estimated the lifetime cost of supporting an individual with autism at $1.4-$2.4 million, with the highest costs associated with adult services and lost productivity—precisely the areas most neglected in current awareness and support programs.
Shifting the Paradigm: From Awareness to Inclusion
To truly serve the entire autism community, we need to evolve from basic awareness to meaningful inclusion. Here’s what that might look like:
Research Priorities
- Increase funding for research on autism across the lifespan
- Study aging with autism, including interaction with age-related conditions
- Develop evidence-based support models for adults and seniors
- Include autistic adults in research design and implementation
Healthcare Systems
- Train healthcare providers to recognize autism in adults and seniors
- Develop screening tools appropriate for older populations
- Create autism-friendly healthcare environments (reduced sensory stimulation, clear communication)
- Ensure continuity of care across life transitions
Employment Innovations
- Expand neurodiversity hiring programs beyond entry-level positions
- Create workplace accommodations that evolve with changing needs
- Develop retirement transition support specific to autistic adults
- Recognize and utilize the unique strengths many autistic individuals bring to the workplace
Community Building
- Create social opportunities specifically designed for autistic adults and seniors
- Develop intergenerational mentoring programs
- Support autism-friendly senior living options
- Fund community centers with programming for all ages
Success Stories: Models That Work
Despite the challenges, innovative programs are emerging that demonstrate how effective adult-focused autism support can be:
AASPIRE (Academic Autism Spectrum Partnership in Research and Education)
This collaborative research project between autistic adults, family members, and academic researchers has developed healthcare toolkits specifically designed for adults with autism and their providers.
The Specialists Guild
This San Francisco-based organization trains adults with autism in technology skills and provides ongoing workplace support, achieving an 85% employment rate for program graduates.
Autistic Self Advocacy Network (ASAN)
Led by autistic adults, ASAN advocates for policy changes that benefit autistic people of all ages and provides resources specific to adult needs.
Kingwood Trust (UK)
This organization provides autism-specific supported living for adults and seniors, with environments designed around sensory needs and staff trained in age-appropriate autism support.
How to Be an Ally to Autistic Adults and Seniors
Individual action matters too. Here are ways anyone can be a better ally:
- Listen to autistic adults and amplify their voices rather than speaking for them
- Challenge ageism in autism conversations when you notice the focus is exclusively on children
- Support businesses that hire and accommodate autistic employees
- Learn about autism from resources created by autistic adults
- Advocate for inclusive policies in your workplace and community
- Check your language – avoid infantilizing terms when referring to autistic adults
- Create sensory-friendly environments in community spaces
The Way Forward: A Lifespan Approach
The most effective approach to autism awareness is one that recognizes autism as a lifelong condition requiring evolving but continuous support. This means:
- Transitioning from child-centered to lifespan-focused support systems
- Ensuring continuity of services through life transitions
- Preparing families and individuals for adult milestones
- Building communities that value neurodiversity at all ages
- Recognizing that autism support needs change but rarely disappear entirely
Conclusion
Autism doesn’t end in childhood, and neither should our awareness, acceptance, and support. Adults and seniors with autism have been overlooked for too long, creating needless suffering and missed opportunities for meaningful inclusion.
By expanding our understanding of autism to include all age groups, we can build a society where being autistic doesn’t mean being forgotten as you age. Instead, it means having access to appropriate support, respect for your neurodivergent identity, and the opportunity to contribute your unique perspectives and talents throughout your entire life.
The autism community has long used the puzzle piece as a symbol, but perhaps the most important piece of the puzzle has been missing all along: recognition that autism is a lifelong journey that deserves lifelong support. It’s time to complete the picture by including adults and seniors in our autism awareness efforts.